We’ve spent a lot of hours in the air, and it took me a good many of them to figure out how to pack for a large family. Our family of ten began traveling internationally back when the kids were fourteen and under. I used to overpack. Like, by a lot. This time however, I packed myself, three of the girls, two board games, a couple bags of candy, a swim floatie, my wax melter, ankle boots, and my hats into one checked bag for this fifteen day trip.

1. Packing layers and lightweight clothing can be a huge space saver. In our luggage, everyone gets one versatile jacket or hoodie to throw over any outfit as needed, one pair of jeans (when it makes sense for the destination) with a few option for tops, and we totally maximize on leggings for the younger girls. I typically travel with one pair of pants and a couple of tops, and mostly light dresses and jumpers because they are compact and leave more space for my hats and whatever else. I’ve learned to pair down my shoes and have figured out what actually makes sense and will get worn; definitely a pair of cute, but comfortable sandals, and one other pair of something versatile. The reality of me needing running shoes or a pair of heels is pretty slim for most of our voyages. 

2. No matter how old the kids get, I always pack fun snacks. Always. This trip I stuffed fruit snacks into my backpack and candy necklaces and other goodies into the suitcase. The perfect occasion for pulling them out always presents itself; a delayed flight, spicy local food, a long car ride, or a grumpy toddler (or teen).

3. A game or two. Whether for a conference or a vacation, we’ve never regretted bringing games. This time, we brought Code Names, Carcassonne, Puerto Rico and Beanboozled.

4. Particularly for longer flights or when I know we’ll have a long drive etc, we bring the iPad and/or Nintendo Switches. The night before takeoff I save movies and episodes that I think will keep them entertained. Currently, we’ve got Bluey and IF downloaded. For short flights without screens it’s helpful to bring a phone/tablet tripod stand. Flip down the meal tray and use the tripod to prop up your screen. Don’t forget to pack your headphones.

5. I have a lightweight blanket that I almost always pack, and I’ve almost always been disappointed when I haven’t. There are never enough blankets. And also, I’m super particular about bedding. Most of the kids pack a lightweight blanket into their carryons or backpacks too.

6. A universal adapter is a must when traveling internationally, and depending on where you’re going, you may even want to pick up one that converts voltage. I also pack a travel size multi-plug, because we have way too many devices and there aren’t always enough outlets.

7. A few gallon and quart size ziplock bags. They always come in handy!

8. A good toiletry bag and jewelry box. My toiletry bag has two compartments and a zippered pouch in the top. Sometimes I toss jewelry right into it, and sometimes I pack a whole separate box for all my earrings and bracelets.

9. I probably saw it on Pinterest back in the day, but I used to always pack a ziplock bag of random goodies, art and coloring supplies, small toys and a pack of gum for each of the kids. At some point, the big girls started packing books and journals, and I got each of the smaller girls a hard covered art case that they now fill with their own supplies and I just had them all a bag of snacks and treats.

10. And, my wax melter always makes the cut. No matter how nice our accommodations are, I just don’t love being away from home and melting cozy scents helps to make the space feel more comfortable.